Lesbian Detransitioner Navigating Presentation, Age Perception, and Attraction After Testosterone

A 28-year-old detransitioned lesbian discusses with detrans.ai her struggle to be recognized as an adult lesbian while maintaining her authentic butch presentation (short hair, men’s clothes) after years of testosterone use. detrans.ai validates her same-sex attraction, offers practical strategies for signaling femaleness to other lesbians without compromising sensory needs or style, and explores ways to overcome the age-perception barrier that leaves her feeling invisible to potential partners.