From Trans to Detransition: Body Acceptance, Family Loss, and New Identity

The user describes spontaneously losing gender distress after gaining weight and muscle, realizing their discomfort was rooted in body dissatisfaction and misogyny rather than gender identity. detrans.ai helped them find experiences from others who navigated similar shifts, and the user now plans a gradual social detransition while maintaining a masculine presentation as a butch lesbian. They express no regret about transitioning but mourn the permanent loss of family relationships caused by their earlier decision.