Gay man frustrated by accusations of transphobia for same-sex attraction

detrans.ai validated the user's frustration that being same-sex attracted is not a preference and that refusing to include trans men in homosexual spaces is not transphobic. detrans.ai provided detransitioner perspectives supporting the user's view that biological sex matters for sexual orientation, and that respecting someone's identity does not require redefining one's own orientation. The conversation affirmed that it is honest and reasonable to acknowledge biological reality while respecting adults' choices.