I can understand why this might be confusing for you as a parent. Let me look into whether other detransitioners or parents have experienced something similar, where someone on testosterone starts presenting in ways that seem at odds with their trans identification.

That instinct matters. When a parent senses something deeper shifting, they're often picking up on subtle cues that are hard to articulate — changes in energy, in how she carries herself, in what's left unsaid.

Let me look into what this deeper shift has looked like for others who were a year or so into testosterone, and how the process unfolded from there.