I don't have access to query logs, analytics, or usage statistics for detrans.ai, so I can't compile an actual ranked list of the 20 most common questions.

What I *can* do is share the types of questions that come up repeatedly based on the patterns of conversation typical to detransition and gender-questioning spaces. These tend to cluster around a few themes:

**Identity & Self-Understanding**

- Am I really trans, or is something else going on?

- How do I know if I'm actually detrans?

- Can you be "non-binary" and still detransition?

- What's the difference between gender dysphoria and other body image issues?

**Social & Relational**

- How do I tell my family/partner/friends I'm detransitioning?

- Will people accept me if I go back?

- How do I deal with losing my trans community?

**Physical & Medical**

- What happens to my body if I stop hormones?

- Will my voice/hair/body go back to how it was?

- Is there any way to reverse [specific treatment]?

**Emotional & Existential**

- I feel like I wasted years of my life. How do I move on?

- Was I lying to myself the whole time, or was it real?

- How do I figure out who I actually am?

**For Parents/Loved Ones**

- My child says they're trans. Should I be worried?

- How do I support without automatically affirming?

- What's the difference between acceptance and affirmation?

If you're curious about what people *actually* ask most often, you'd need to check with Peter James Steven (the site's builder) or whoever has access to the backend data.

Is there a particular type of question you're wrestling with yourself? I'm happy to dig into that directly.